Thistle & Spire: is a captivating lingerie brand that combines delicate fabrics, intricate designs, and a touch of allure. Founded by two women, this female-owned company takes pride in offering luxurious lingerie that is ethically produced. Their commitment to ethical manufacturing practices ensures that you can indulge in their stunning pieces with a clear conscience.

Fleur du Mai : is a lingerie brand that exudes elegance and sophistication. With their thoughtfully crafted designs and attention to detail, they create lingerie that makes you feel empowered and confident. This female-founded company embraces ethical practices, ensuring that each piece is made with care.

Oh la la Cheri : is a lingerie brand that celebrates sensuality and playfulness aiming to empower women of all sizes. Their collection features a mix of flirty and seductive designs that cater to various tastes. While their manufacturing locations may vary, they prioritize ethical sourcing and production methods to uphold their commitment to sustainability.

ARQ : is a brand known for its comfortable and sustainable underwear and loungewear. Their pieces are made from organic cotton and manufactured in the USA, ensuring high-quality and ethical standards. ARQ's commitment to size inclusivity and sustainable production makes them a go-to choice for conscious consumers.

Only Hearts : a female-founded lingerie company that embraces a romantic and feminine aesthetic. With their headquarters and manufacturing located in New York, they prioritize supporting local artisans and ensuring fair labor practices. Their bridal section is the definition of perfection for me if you are looking for soft and feminine.

Negative Underwear : is a female-founded and operated brand that focuses on simplicity and comfort. Their collection includes minimalist designs that are perfect for everyday wear. They are committed to providing a range of sizes and empowering women with their body-positive messaging.

Rooted in Bali, Gooseberry Intimates defines a style that gracefully fuses the intricacies of lace with a gently unstructured allure within the lingerie domain. Infused with audacious details and just the right touch of sass, Gooseberry emboldens you to embody the confident and enchanting woman within, celebrating your unique beauty with grace and allure.

Are you ready to explore the world of online lingerie shopping? Don't worry if you feel overwhelmed; many of us have been there. Let's break it down and make it fun! 

Have you ever felt pressured to buy lingerie based on media portrayals of what's considered sexy? Let's embrace the idea of defining your own version of sexy. What do you personally find alluring and empowering?

When it comes to shopping for lingerie, we need to discuss the male gaze versus the female gaze. Historically, the lingerie industry has predominantly catered to the male gaze, with designs and marketing focused on pleasing the male viewer. This often resulted in hyper-sexualized and objectifying a woman’s body. When you are doing a boudoir session as a gift for your partner you should 100% include pieces for their gaze, but not at the cost of you feeling uncomfortable or self conscious. Your partner is going to love every inch of your confidence when you make sure you find pieces that flatter, fit your body correctly and that reflect your personality.

Luckily, in recent years, the female gaze has gained prominence, offering a refreshing shift in how lingerie is perceived and designed. The female gaze emphasizes empowerment, self-expression, and embraces a diverse range of body types and celebrates individuality. While this is amazing it also can make shopping more overwhelming with all the options out there. 

Anya Lust : is a local Bay Area-based lingerie company that embodies luxury and sensuality. Their curated collection features enticing designs that evoke confidence and allure. By supporting Anya Lust, you can embrace a local, independent brand while indulging in high-quality lingerie.

Savage X Fenty, founded by singer Rihanna, and let me tell you, RiRi knows what she is doing. The brand celebrates diversity and inclusivity and offers a wide range of sizes and styles, they aim to make every individual feel confident and beautiful. I have a couple pieces in my lingerie drawer and let me tell you how much I love them 

Hips and Curves is a brand that embraces the beauty of all body types. They specialize in plus-size lingerie and offer a variety of stylish and comfortable designs. With their commitment to inclusivity, Hips and Curves provides a diverse range of llingerie options that cater to different preferences.

Adore Me : is an online lingerie retailer that provides a diverse range of styles and sizes. With a subscription service available, you can receive personalized selections delivered to your doorstep. Adore Me aims to empower women by offering affordable and fashionable lingerie for all body types.

For Love and Lemons : is a lingerie brand that combines romance, sophistication, and a touch of whimsy. Their designs feature intricate lace, delicate details, and a sense of playfulness. While not solely focused on lingerie, their captivating pieces are highly sought after by those seeking unique and alluring lingerie options.
















Other websites to check out:

Don’t sleep on Amazon - The link takes you to some of my favorites. One of my favorite bodysuits I recommend for everyone is on Amazon and the have a great Calvin Klein selection. 
Agent Provocateur 
La Perla 
Victoria's Secret 
Shein : It is a love/hate with Shein. Lingerie from them is not a long term investment but fun pieces they have some perfectly fun pieces for your session. 
Free People : The best robes hands down.
Anthropologie : Not a huge selection but often have wonderful bridal pieces. 
Poshmark : Requires more work searching for pieces. I have bought some NWT pieces with a great discount. 

I want to add one more thing. You want to know one of my favorite outfits? Nothing. Just you and a sheet. During a session this is not the first outfit we will start off - it is usually the grand finale. One of my favorite things to witness during a session is the way your confidence grows and 9 out of 10 women who say just the sheet isn't for them are telling a different story at the end of the session.